Teaching kids to write thank you notes

This past weekend, we celebrated Super Boy's 6th birthday.  (He's been 6 since winter, but as his birthday is only two days after Christmas, we always celebrate it in the summer on/near his half-birthday.)  As is our habit, after the last guest said "good-bye", he whipped out some stationary supplies to write out a few simple thank you notes.  

In an effort to cultivate an attitude of gratitude within my Littles, Thank You notes are a non-negotiable around here.  My littles have learned/are learning that if someone has shown them kindness in word or in deed, they need to show gratitude in WORD or DEED in return.  Often this comes in the form of a simple thank you note.  

Although teaching this personal discipline is still quite a work in progress, there are a few basic steps that help to make it an effortless process.

Insist on immediate gratitude

Make it a house rule that, if at all possible, thank-you notes are to be written immediatelyeven before the gift gets to be played with or used.  My kids rarely have to be prodded to write out thank-you notes when they know that a fun new toy awaits them as soon as they are done.  Let

How Kids Can Write Personalised Thank You Notes: A Guide for Mums, Parents and Teachers

Teaching children how to express gratitude through thank-you notes is a valuable life skill that parents, teachers, and caregivers can help nurture. Whether it’s thanking a teacher for their dedication, a friend for their kindness, or a parent for their support, the act of writing a thank-you note encourages reflection and appreciation. Here’s a simple five-step guide to help kids craft meaningful thank-you notes:

Step 1: Brainstorm Why You Want to Thank Them

Encourage children to think about the person they’re writing to. Parents and teachers can guide kids to jot down traits that make the recipient special—kindness, patience, creativity, or humor. For example, mums could ask, “What do you love about your teacher?” or “How did your friend make you feel better when you were upset?” This step helps kids connect emotionally with the note’s purpose.

Step 2: Remember Specific Moments

Guide your child to recall specific actions or memories they cherish about the recipient. Did a teacher make learning fun? Did a parent spend extra time helping with a project? This helps personalize the

Four Steps to Teach Your Kids About Writing Thank You Notes

Teaching your kids to write thank you notes might seem like a thankless task. But it's an important, and you're the best person to teach your kids about gratitude. We're here with tips to help you cultivate thankfulness in your kids and translate that into meaningful cards. Whether they need to say thanks for a gift or an experience, your kids can master the art of jotting an appreciative note without any frustration or tears.

1. Set a Good Example of Appreciation & Gratitude

Learning how to appreciate what they have in life is something that your kids learn from you first and foremost. That means you need to model gratitude when you open a gift–even if you really don't like the item. Your kids are bound to receive gifts they dislike too. It's important for them to understand that the gift giver meant well and was excited about giving them the present even if they don't like it.

2. Make Your Kids' Thank You Cards a Priority

One of the biggest challenges with teaching your kids to write thank you cards is simply getting them done in a timely fashion. Have you ever been t

How to Teach Kids the Art of Writing Thank You Notes

We are in that sweet spot between Thanksgiving and Christmas, where it seems that everything around us takes a soft curve—or a sharp right turn—from a spirit of gratitude to over-consumption. I don’t know about your family, but at my house, there are only a few hours between being thankful for what we have on Thursday and shopping the best deals on Friday. It’s hard to know how to navigate these waters, but the best way to claim the joy of the entire season is to keep the giving of thanks alive.

During this season especially, your kids will probably receive loads of gifts (and acts of service) from grandparents, relatives and friends. But the dangerous side effects of receiving such generosity are the pesky symptoms of expectation. You might even hear your children grumble and complain about how they didn’t get exactly what they wanted, and you’ll wonder who are these entitled little monsters you’ve created. But even if they are so overcome with elation that they leap to hug Grandma of their own free will, there’s an even more meaningful—but often neglected—way to express gratitude: the Thank-you note.

Thank-you notes are a


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